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Plan a willing conversation
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LISTEN
No JavaScript needed: Print all three pages; repeat page 2 for more notes. All writing happens on paper. Practice with a grown-up first. You can use a fictional role-play when a family interview is not possible; label it as practice.
1 · Make your interview plan
Partner’s safe label / relationship / why I chose them
Three things I hope to learn
Date / time / where or how / grown-up helping
Use a general setting, not a private address. Plan notes during or after, or a grown-up’s help.
Consent check — discuss, then mark on paper: willing to talk / not yet. Ask separately before recording or quoting. No recording is required. A “no” is enough; anyone may skip a question, pause, or stop. Do not pressure them or record secretly.
2 · Choose 10–12 questions
Use the workbook’s 20 Questions. Write question numbers or short cues in your chosen order; adapt them respectfully. Skip uncomfortable topics. A useful follow-up: “Would you like to tell me more?”
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Listen before the next question
3 · Keep listening notes
Partner label / interviewer label / date / notes page:
Where or how / how long we talked:
Give the speaker time. Note a question cue, what they remember, and a follow-up. Use your own words unless you are certain of an exact quote and have permission to keep it. Mark anything you did not hear clearly.
Conversation note 1 · question cue, remembered details, follow-up
Conversation note 2 · question cue, remembered details, follow-up
Conversation note 3 · question cue, remembered details, follow-up
Pause or stop whenever needed. Leave out anything the speaker asks you not to keep. Star a question that helped the conversation. Repeat this page if you need more room.
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Remember honestly. File safely.
4 · What I learned
Write soon afterward, ideally within an hour. A memory is a source to consider; differing memories can remain unresolved.
Three surprising things I learned
A story worth keeping — one-paragraph archive summary
Include partner and interviewer labels, relationship, date, where/how, and the most important thing learned. Tell the story in your own words; distinguish what was said from what you infer.
One open question / something I noticed about the telling
What needs checking? What did I observe, such as a pause or laughter, without guessing why?
5 · Choose the private archive together
Keep the plan, notes and summary together. Ask what may be kept, who may see it, and what to leave out. If a recording was separately permitted, a grown-up can manage a second offline copy. No upload or cloud sync is part of this kit.
Safe storage label / who may see it / anything to omit:
- I practiced, made a plan and chose 10–12 questions.
- My partner agreed; I respected skips and stops.
- I held the conversation (or labeled fictional practice), kept notes and wrote a careful summary.
- We agreed what to keep and stored it privately.
The workbook’s transcript challenge is optional; recording is never required.